"The first time I see my father in my 28 years old, when I decided, if I have children, my children must know who his father"
Although I have not yet 28 years old, of course, impossible for 28-year-old when the first time I saw my father, but watching film, listening to Jaden Smith Cute childish, when suddenly there is a very wanted a child, and then take good care of his impulses. When Jaden Smith, together with the father slept toilets is not complaining, and even put forward again to this "hole" sleep time; when he was stare at the grocery store where snacks, when the father asked when he himself must not be the and other circumstances such as these, I would have been repeating a word in my heart, I really sensible ah, I really sensible ah.
The wife to leave, is a choice, you can blame a sale because the husband did not sell anything, but for four weeks at home every day, a woman connected to the two classes Mody? Her departure is definitely not aspire to vanity so materialistic, and she has to bear a lot of women may not be able to afford things. Choking on the phone before, more a life of despair. From the film at the end of speculation, in fact, she stays a few months again as long as you can, but it is fair to surmise from the results, real life, how many people's life is a written script of a happy ending? Vicissitudes of life are derived from the unknown. Life is often much more complex than the film,
Chris Gardner's success just shows that more people in this world is a failure, because most people fail before they bring out the success of some minority of people so precious, so dazzling. If you are successful people all over the world, success has given us the word would not be touched by so many. I can now finally understand that there is no way those who go on to marriage, is not necessarily a heinous which side and which side should have been cast aside, and stood together in life or not to walk, two people have the right to choose at any time. Of course, the wife has been family and her husband as the center, is certainly most of the men of the
希望. But I personally think that, no matter how difficult life, for our children, should carry on, just as 28-year-old did not see a father Chris Gardner's insistence, as the mother must also let the child know who he is, whether it is life In the hut or the palace, a complete family for the child is an unparalleled wealth.
The film is certainly inspirational classic, how many times a basket case, how many times homeless, and ultimately thoroughly transform. Nowhere to go and sleep in the toilet crying shame suffering, the church door in order to fight a relief to bed with the homeless gaffe bickering off the night at the police station the next day flew to his head is the first day of the interview also wore decorated stained paint, ... ... a number of bitter and relentless details of life, was admitted in the final moment was Nabu Wen book into a trembling hand, how many people do not at this moment, together with Chris Gardner silently weeping? But I do not know how many people see the film will be more firmly their own dreams,
Would have confidence in sales and stocks in this industry. All the difficulties, for the ultimate result of that success, I have to repeat the above sentence once said, how many people will ultimately succeed it? The capital market must be to make most people's money flow to a small number of people, failure than the success of many people is absolute. "The road to success everywhere fallen places and fallen people" a determination to work for each person should have a heart ready to become a friend that owed money to 14 people to be more likely to Repudiation more than a well-known U.S. investment experts blacks were much more likely Chris Gardner
. Through thick and thin to find a willing woman is not difficult, but encountered a willingness to have a woman who carries the weight of life is not easy, if in case you are successful, you can thank her, you may find Xiaomi second wife, but if you failed, perhaps she may not be able to see you live to the final failure of that day.
"The figure must be sensitive, good at communication, nothing more"
A lot of tough job being a few words summed up, life is not so, the film was finally able to let me know that a blueprint for the more beautiful, the surface of the more glorious career, the more easy for those keen and ambitious, but in fact, it takes to be successful The effort, than those who seemingly behave much more professional. Prove once again the phrase "no love for no reason," and wanted to riches, it is impossible for no reason.
Finally, I have to admit, Will Smith's performance does have touched people's hearts place. Allow me also to those who worked hard for their ideals, but it does not obtain or no access to their own well-being of the people to pay tribute to the ideal. Because no matter how long you have worked hard for every drop of sweat are real. The losers tend to be a successful stepping stone, though very few places in the success, but who will forever be a stepping stone to do? Let us insist on the same, like Chris Gardner!
“我第一次见我父亲是在我28岁那年，那时候我就下定决心，如果我有孩子，我的孩子一定要知道他父亲是谁”
虽然我还没有二十八岁，当然也不可能在28岁的时候第一次见我的父亲，但是看着这部影片，听着Jaden Smith稚嫩的童声，忽然有一种很想要一个小孩，然后好好照顾他的冲动。当Jaden Smith跟老爸一起睡厕所并不埋怨，甚至还提出过可以再次去这个“洞”里睡时；当他在杂货铺里目不转睛地盯着零食，当老爸问的时候说自己不要时等诸如此类的情节，我就会在心里不停重复一句话，真懂事啊，真懂事啊。
做妻子的离开，是一种选择，你能指责一个因为做销售的老公卖不出东西，而为了家四个星期每天都连上两班的女人么？她的离开绝对不是贪慕虚荣那么功利，她已经在承受很多女人未必能承受的事情了。在电话前的哽咽，更多的是一种对生活的绝望。从影片的结尾推测，其实她只要再撑几个月就可以了，但是这是从结果来推测，现实生活，有多少人的人生是一本写好大团圆结局的剧本？人生的酸甜苦辣都来源于未知。生活往往比电影复杂得多，Chris Gardner的成功只说明了这个世界有更多的人是失败的，因为大多数人的失败，才衬托出某些少数人的成功那么弥足珍贵，那么耀眼。如果满世界都是成功的人，成功两个字给与我们的感动就不会那么多。我现在终于能够理解，那些没有办法进行下去的婚姻，并不一定是哪一方十恶不赦，哪一方要遭到唾弃，风雨同舟的人生要不要一起走过，两个人随时都有选择权。当然，做妻子的一直以家庭和丈夫为中心，肯定是大多数男人们的希望。不过我个人以为，不管生活多么艰难，为了孩子，都应该坚持下去的，就如同28岁才见到父亲的Chris Gardner的坚持一样，做母亲的也一定要让孩子知道自己是谁，不论是生活在草棚还是宫殿，一个完整的家庭对于孩子来说是无可比拟的财富。
这部电影当然是励志经典，多少次山穷水尽，多少次无家可归，最终修成正果。无处可去，睡在厕所里羞愧痛苦的哭泣，教堂门口为了争一个救济床位与流浪汉失态地争吵、在警局关了一夜第二天飞奔去面试还顶着头一天满头装修沾到的油漆、……众多辛酸而坚持不懈的生活细节，在最终被录取的那一刻，化作颤抖得拿不稳本子的手，有多少人不会在这一刻与Chris Gardner一起无声地哭泣？可是我不知道有多少人看到影片会更坚定自己的梦想，会对销售和股票这个行业充满信心。所有的困难，为的是最终那个成功的结果，我要再说上文曾经说过的那句话，有多少人最终会走向成功的呢？资本市场必然是要让大多数人的钱流向少部分人，失败的人比成功的人多是绝对的。“在通往成功的路上，到处都是倒下的地方和倒下的人”每一个决心努力的人都应该有心里准备，变成那个欠朋友14块钱都要赖账的人的可能性要比成为美国著名黑人投资专家Chris Gardner的可能性大得多。找一个愿意同甘共苦的女人不难，而遇到一个愿意一直背负生活重压的女人就很不容易，如果万一你成功了，你可以感激她，你也可能去找小蜜二奶，而你如果失败了，也许她未必能活到最终看到你失败的那一天。
“对数字要敏感，善于交流，仅此而已”
很多艰难职业被人几句话概括，生活不仅仅如此，这部电影让我终于能了解到那些蓝图越美好、表面越风光的职业，越容易让好高骛远者趋之若鹜，而实际上，要成功所花费的心力，比那些貌似循规蹈矩的职业要多得多。再次印证那句话“没有无缘无故的爱”，想要暴富，也不可能无缘无故。
最后，我要承认，Will Smith的表演，确实有感动人心的地方。并请允许我，向那些曾努力为自己的理想而奋斗，却并没有获得或暂时没有获得自己理想中幸福的人们致敬。因为无论你努力了多久，每一滴汗水都是真实的。而失败者往往会成为成功者的踏脚石，虽然成功的名额少之又少，可是谁愿意永远做踏脚石呢？就让我们像Chris Gardner一样坚持!